1. Be a yes person- Pretty soon life will very much change. It is in such a great way but things might be more challenging than before. Go see a movie, get a pedicure, see your friends and go on date nights. Be a Yes person because life will halt for a bit after your baby.
2. Sleep-Sleep-Sleep- I remember my sister in law giving me this advice when I was pregnant. She said sleep while you can. Let me add to this--sleep while you can and don't feel lazy about it! Seriously- your body will appreciate all the extra rest.
3. Workout- You will never regret working out. It will prepare your body for delivery but you will totally thank yourself after you have your sweet baby. I tried to workout all the way through my pregnancy and I really feel that's part of the reason my weight came off so quickly.
4. Ignore the Haters- Everyone has their own unique birth/baby story and some of them aren't so good. Don't let someone scare you or get you down about your baby. This is YOUR story. This is YOUR baby. This is YOUR family. You can make it what you want. I encourage you to stay optimistic.
5. Mentally Prepare- With that being said I do think it is best to mentally prepare for the hardships ahead. Having a baby for the first time really is such a game changer. My husband would always say how nervous he was about life with a baby. I always blew him off. The problem is nothing is perfect and I had a huge adjustment to overcome. Accepting the fact that yes there will be alot of sleepless nights and yes it will be challenging will help you not loose it in the process.
Having a baby is the best thing I have ever done. I love my son and can't imagine not experiencing this love and wholeness. The baby stage lasts for such a short time. Cherish everyday.Congratulations on your first pregnancy it is such a beautiful crazy ride!
Any other moms have advice to share?
Great advice x
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